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Over a Cuppa: Sixteen (All the celebrations!)

Posted on November 30, 2025November 30, 2025 by Melissa

Hi, Hey, Hello!

Goodness, I’m so happy to see you on this beautiful Autumn day! How the heck are you?!

What can I get started for you? I’m brewing up some black tea with milk and honey (obviously) but also have coffee or any herbal tea your heart could desire as well as some apple cider pressed from our orchard in the fridge I could easily heat up for you.

It’s a gorgeous, blue skied day, with some cooler weather (and maybe some snow) forecasted for the week ahead. Shall we sit on the front porch and listen to the birds while we chat?

Recently

The last week has been nothing if not eventful. I knew it would be, but sometimes our plans can roll up on us and into one another, ya know?

It all started a last Saturday with a big (look away if you’re anti-meat) culling day with the help of my brother and his partner and my eldest daughter and her husband. Together we culled 20 turkeys, ducks, and chickens to fill our freezer and our bellies.

Next, on Sunday, we all headed to my brother’s house to celebrate my dad’s 69th birthday with a Pizza Party! My Aunt Polly, my dad’s youngest sister, was travelling through on a rare trip so we got to see her, too! And yes, of course I had to pull everyone together for a group shot because it could be a long while until we’re all together again like that.

My dad barely tolerates photos, so I get them when I can 😉

And yes, that’s me and my little brother in the other shot below. He passed me in height way too young and just kept going.

Thursday was, of course, The Big Meal. There were ten of us around the table and it was absolutely amazing. So many good dishes and so many good people. Big gratitude for my little family and all the love we share.

Believe it or not, I didn’t get a single photo that day!!!

We usually wait until the first weekend in December to put up the Christmas tree, but the dates line up a funny and waiting until the 6th felt a little late… especially since we take it all down before January 1st. So, we decided to put it up and pull out a few other festive items on Friday!

The cats were happy and so were we.

Do have traditions or time frames around holiday decorating?

Finally, yesterday was my 49th birthday. It was celebrated quietly with my wife and youngest daughter at home with lots of yummy food, a few sweet gifts, and the perfect amount of downtime. I read, drank copious amounts of tea, did a solid meditation, and pulled a year-ahead spread with my favorite oracle deck, The Rooted Woman.

I even took a selfie to mark my 49th year 🙂

Outside of all the above, plus cleaning again and again, and puttering about with various small projects around the house and farm, I listened to two books, both enjoyable in their own right:

  • Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy
  • Ten Thousand Doors of January my Alix E Harrow

Have you read any good books lately?

Next week we snap back to the work and school reality for a few weeks before enjoying two weeks off for the holidays and our slide into 2026.

2026… Wild, right?

One day at a time.

That’s all Folks!

I so appreciate you sharing space and time with me today, let’s do it again soon, OK?

Natalie is taking the weekend off so we are linkless as a group. I’ll pop around and try to find everyone, but please feel free to leave a link in the comments if you have a #weekendcoffeeshare post and I’ve somehow missed you.

Onward,

Melissa

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9 thoughts on “Over a Cuppa: Sixteen (All the celebrations!)”

  1. A Creative Spirit says:
    December 1, 2025 at 3:36 pm

    A little late to the party as it has been one of those weeks where I am playing catchup! Belated congratulations on you 49th … and just so you know life begins at 50 🙂 We say 50 is the new 30 only you are wiser.
    Wow that was a lot of meat to fill your freezers I take it that will probably last over winter.

    I like the idea of Thanksgiving before Christmas. Christmas day is such a big build up of stress.

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    1. Melissa says:
      December 2, 2025 at 12:36 pm

      Your comment made it through! Just a little delayed, I guess?

      Yes, I am very much looking forward to my 50s! Each year I am more and more grateful for each day I am given!

      And yes, we will slowly eat our way through the freezer 🙂

      Hope you’re enjoying a lovely week!

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  2. A Creative Spirit says:
    December 1, 2025 at 3:37 pm

    Hey, my comment disappeared LoL

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  3. joyweesemoll says:
    December 2, 2025 at 2:00 pm

    Happy Birthday! That does sound like a good mix of gatherings and work and alone time.
    I enjoyed The Ten Thousand Doors of January, not the least because it was recommended by a friend who isn’t much of a reader.

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    1. Melissa says:
      December 8, 2025 at 7:53 am

      Thank you, Joy!

      I’m glad to hear you enjoyed The Ten Thousand Doors of January as well. I do love when an IRL friend recommends a book that is well received…especially if they don’t read all the time 🙂

      I hope your December is off to a smooth and happy start!

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  4. Writing Sparkle says:
    December 3, 2025 at 5:27 pm

    Happy belated birthday, Melissa. Great selfie, you have a happy glow.

    I love your oracle deck; the images are lovely.

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    1. Melissa says:
      December 8, 2025 at 7:55 am

      Thank you for your kind words <3

      The Oracle deck is new to me, purchased for the Ancestral Divination class I took in October. I was guided to it by an Ancestral Guide and we've been using it together exclusively. I'm thoroughly enjoying the experience :-)

      Hope you week is off to a wonderful start!

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  5. Kathleen Howell says:
    December 6, 2025 at 10:32 am

    Happy Birthday!! Sounds like you had a lovely celebration and what gorgeous pics of you and your family!! I’m looking forward to doing a year ahead pull as well. I usually do it on NYE.. Right now I’m reading A Lantern in the Dark, by Danielle Blackwood.

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    1. Melissa says:
      December 8, 2025 at 7:56 am

      Thank you, Kathleen!

      I’ve shifted from a NYE pull to a Birthday pull over the last few years and like the ritual of it 🙂 I always enjoy looking back on it throughout the year in reflection of all that’s transpired and what still lies ahead!

      Hope you have a fantastic week!

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